It is now the day after the children learned of Bonnie’s passing. Abby decided to write about it in her diary, and I would like to share what she wrote. I am astounded by the maturity and insight that Abby has shown, and enormously comforted by the peace she has found. These are Abby’s words alone, not a regurgitation of anything that I have said to her. This is what she wrote:
Bbbbonies DEAD!!!!!! WAAA
Mum put her down a week ago.
I had a cry but now I am feeling better.
But this year, life without her is going to feel weird.
She was unhappy but she loved us lots, but we just have to accept that people and animals get to the time where they have to give their life
But I’m pretty sure I can survive it.
Dear God,
May you bless Bonnie as she lives with you today and for the rest
of eternity.
And may she rest in Peace.
Make sure she lives a life she deserves after 11 years.
That means she can get lots of love, freedom and happiness.
May you be with her.
Amen
Our family does not attend church regularly. We do not pray at home, nor speak much about God or our beliefs. We talk about the importance of respecting everyone’s right to their own beliefs, which is particularly relevant now that our children attend a very religious school. Abby and Lulu have quietly embraced their religious education, whereas Charlotte has rebelled somewhat against it.
Some studies have found that children who believe in God are happier than those who don’t. Either way, I am glad that my children have the freedom and right to explore their own beliefs; both within the walls of our home and the wider community. This can only be a good thing.
This is a recent photo of Bonnie. It was taken by Abby, on her own camera.
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